Looking for new methods to proceed with divorce

[Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse...]

Hello,

I have been separated from my wife for 1 year.  I feel like I spend 13 years trying to be close to someone who didn't know how.  She broke up us and our family.  We have two boys that give me reason to stay close.  I do still love her and wish things were different, but they're not so I have to move forward.  I'm not sure what I'm asking.  I just feel lost.

[Skinnyeye]

Hello,

I have been separated from my wife for 1 year.  I feel like I spend 13 years trying to be close to someone who didn't know how.  She broke up us and our family.  We have two boys that give me reason to stay close.  I do still love her and wish things were different, but they're not so I have to move forward.  I'm not sure what I'm asking.  I just feel lost.

[livednlearned]

Hi Skinnyeye, welcome to the board and I can imagine only too well what brings you here.

What kind of relationship do you have with the kids? How much time do you have with them?

How is co-parenting going?

Let us know some of what's happening in your situation. A lot of it will unfortunately probably feel all too familiar to many people here. You're not alone.