Hello BlendedTornado and welcome
I am sorry to hear of what brought you here, you are in the right place, we have lots of resources here along with the help and support of other parents who are going through similar situations to yours.
It is difficult l know when you see first hand what BPD behaviour is like. Unfortunately it is the ones who are closest to their loved one with BPD who bear the brunt, whilst others not so close do not see that side of them. Frustrating.
... .here I am to find similar experiences that can help and learn how to handle these extremely difficult heartbreaking situations before this causes us to loose our minds and break up our family.
I am glad that you are here to learn how to handle the difficult and as you rightly say, heartbreaking situations, crazy making for sure. So what’s happening with your family right now? How can we help you?
I look forward to hearing more from you x