What happened after you initiated NC?

[Depression = 72% of members]

Just curious what everyones' stories are. It seems like most people had their ex's start NC with them but that wasn't the case for me. She continued to try to keep me as an orbiter after we broke up - even after she got married. After she got married I was done. Since I initiated NC 12 days ago, my exBPDgf has been calling me more than usual but I haven't picked up. Tonight she called again for the 3rd time in a week. I'm not surprised that because I'm not available she is probably trying harder to keep me around. Or maybe she's already fighting with her new husband and calling me. Who knows... . Hope they stay together long enough so she gets over me. 

So... . what was your all experiences with NC?

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Just curious what everyones' stories are. It seems like most people had their ex's start NC with them but that wasn't the case for me. She continued to try to keep me as an orbiter after we broke up - even after she got married. After she got married I was done. Since I initiated NC 12 days ago, my exBPDgf has been calling me more than usual but I haven't picked up. Tonight she called again for the 3rd time in a week. I'm not surprised that because I'm not available she is probably trying harder to keep me around. Or maybe she's already fighting with her new husband and calling me. Who knows... . Hope they stay together long enough so she gets over me. 

So... . what was your all experiences with NC?