Yeah but that's all done and now I just like cute clothes and I have so many, why not wear them?
Like I said - I'm all for that! It's great that you look good and have clothes that accentuate that.
I'm just saying factor that in when guys approach you - if you look like arm candy / trophy gf, some of the guys you're going to attract will only be into you for that reason.
I'll repeat what another poster said - there are good guys out there. But then disagree with another one (who may not have been generalizing to ALL men)... .I dated two very beautiful women recently (one being my BPDex) but I was attracted to them for other reasons - and very much wanted an emotionally intimate relationship with them. Unfortunately it turns out they couldn't reciprocate. Looks weren't everything to me before - and now, even less so. In fact it's almost turned into a negative, based on my experiences.
[When I was on a business trip a little while ago, there was a girl there that all the guys were saying was very attractive - at one point after I passed her, she followed me to my table and started flirting. Found out she had seriously cut herself in the past and a few otherred-flag . From the start, I wasn't interested (she did look good tho) - but I played along for a bit - and pretty quick got to the "we're soul mates!" comment, which was my cue to leave.]
How about instead of dressing up and going to a bar - you dress up and go to a volunteer event?
Dressed up and went out with my son for Mother's Day. Then went back with my son for dinner because they have a great happy hour menu. Won't be dressing up and going anywhere
for a while except to work. Too busy studying.
As far as volunteering, I plan to make a donation to the charity of that 28 year old hockey player from the NY Rangers that died on Friday. Tragic.  :)id you hear about it? I am going to make a donation to his childrens' charity because my son was devestated by the news and I thought that it would be a nice gesture.