I am sick over it. I was feeling better and strong. Now I am back to crying and questioning everything. My brain thinks that I love him. I get really mad at myself. And of course, I had a friend tonight say, "You could have anyone you want. Just forget about him. He's a loser." No, I can't have anyone I want. I want him only not crazy. That's obviously not going to happen. I have my first T appointment on Thursday. Wish me luck.
I am sorry you are suffering, Karmachameleon. There is a fundamental abuse at the heart of so many of our former relationships, which really does traumatize us. This thread on the FOG reminded me time and again why Fear, Obligation, and Guilt constitute "emotional blackmail."
What it means to be in the FOGSending you good thoughts, and much props for reaching out to a T.