Hi leshonki,
I'd like to welcome you to the community. I'm very sorry to hear that things have escalated to the level of physical violence in your relationship. That kind of stress, and especially with a young child at home, is very difficult to deal with. I commend you for reaching out to authorities and the DCF.
Did the DCF and/or police direct you to domestic violence resources in your area? Have you heard of a safety plan? We have a resource here that can help you better assess your situation and know what steps to take in case things escalate again:
Safety FirstI can understand your feelings of love for your wife and wanting things to work out. That is very normal. Reaching out to others for a more objective view of the situation is a very wise move, in my opinion. When we are in the midst of it, it can be very difficult to get a clear-eyed view of what we are truly dealing with.
How many children do you have together? I know your daughter is 3. How old is your other child(reN) and how are they coping with this recent event?
Keep posting. We're here for you.
heartandwhole