I don't want any more drama - lol

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

The past 2 weeks have been hell from my uBPDstbexw - so today I get this text - I don't want anymore drama.  I had to laugh because all of the drama comes from her - never once do I start it - I always reply in a calm, cool, and logical manner - and then the raging texts start - I can never figure out how my replies can be taken as an attack in anyway.  The funny part is 99% of the time - she always texts first - if I don't reply (rage) if I do reply (rage). So I told her that the best way for no drama is if we do as little communication as possible (which she raged about a few days ago) - drama, drama, drama, - now I get this I don't want any more drama (THEN QUIT TEXTING ME!)

[cal644]

The past 2 weeks have been hell from my uBPDstbexw - so today I get this text - I don't want anymore drama.  I had to laugh because all of the drama comes from her - never once do I start it - I always reply in a calm, cool, and logical manner - and then the raging texts start - I can never figure out how my replies can be taken as an attack in anyway.  The funny part is 99% of the time - she always texts first - if I don't reply (rage) if I do reply (rage). So I told her that the best way for no drama is if we do as little communication as possible (which she raged about a few days ago) - drama, drama, drama, - now I get this I don't want any more drama (THEN QUIT TEXTING ME!)

[Lucky Jim]

Hi Cal, In my experience, those w/BPD will create drama out of thin air, if necessary, just to keep the pot boiling!  You could say that BPD abhors a drama vacuum.  LuckyJim