Hi chase19 glad you found us
You have a difficult path in front of you and its is admirable that you still think like a team.
Having to deal with endless run messages is very hard, here on the Staying Board we have a policy of not making this recommendation. Though you will be asked hard questions about why you are doing it. This is necessary as you need to find that real answer within yourself in order to make it a choice action rather than a default, or even wishful thinking.
You will find most of the advice will be about changing YOU. This is because changing you is the one thing you can control. Part of changing you is learning how better to support him so that he can move forward towards making his own changes, you can't do it for him.
Read through the lessons in the menu on the right>> They sort useful articles into a logical sequence
All the best with you efforts, we are ere for you
Waverider