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Medihermana
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Sibling
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« on: October 10, 2021, 08:17:25 PM »

I miss my the person who is my sister and best friend. Since we were kids we were super close.

I had a baby a year ago and just want is to spend time as a family. I never would’ve thought my sister would not be a part of my child’s life.

I don’t care that my sister is not vaxxed. It bothers my sister that my whole circle and community is vaxxed. She has insulted us and said all kinds of things that are very judgmental and she just won’t leave it alone. I’m past it. I don’t need any explanations or understandings. I just want to spend time together.
She says I favor them over her. I only care about spending time with each other. And she’s been distancing herself more and more and more.
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« Reply #1 on: October 10, 2021, 10:17:59 PM »

I don’t care that my sister is not vaxxed. It bothers my sister that my whole circle and community is vaxxed. She has insulted us and said all kinds of things that are very judgmental and she just won’t leave it alone. I’m past it. I don’t need any explanations or understandings. I just want to spend time together.
She says I favor them over her. I only care about spending time with each other. And she’s been distancing herself more and more and more.

Hi Medihermana Welcome new member (click to insert in post)

I'm sorry you are having a hard time, and missing your sister so much.  With a new baby, I can understand why having your sister around could be important.

So, let's unpack this.  Your priority is spending time with your sister, versus who is, or isn't vaccinated.  Whether or not they are vaccinated is less important to you than just spending time with her.

She has been insulting you, and judging you, and "won't leave it alone".  What does this say about her priority?

Can you tell us a little more about your relationship history with her?
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