This reply was split from an old thread as it deserves it's own current discussion. https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=195420.0sherryg, when I read your post I could have written it myself. Today is my son’s 40th birthday and if anyone would have told me I would not be a part of my son and his family’s life I would never have believed it.
We went from having a close loving relationship to me being the devil incarnate. I worry about my three beautiful grand daughters’ mental wellbeing growing up in a home filled with anger and tension.
Thank you for listening, I hate to burden my daughter, who is also cut out of my son and grandchildren’s lives, and my friends, you don’t want to put a damper on anyone’s holidays, and today is also Easter.
It helps to know I am not the only person going through this.
