I am not sure about animal cruelty laws, but animals actually survive weather no? I cannot imagine calling animal services for two healthy german shepards, but maybe some pomeranians that were there all day? Idk!
Yea, you can choose to call animal services if you feel the animals aren't being treated properly. (I called when a neighbor of mine was viciously attacked, idk,why victim didn't)
Yet be aware, this could escalate conflict between you two, where simply retrieving the dogs may give you more peace in your life.
Your choice.
Neither is wrong, simply choices.
Do I need to choose? I shouldn't have to, right? Even if my brother says "dude that's animal cruelty you need to call the police" that should be ok because it is a private conversation and she shouldn't have been eavesdropping, right?
Simply... .
Your choices are yours.Likewise, hers are hers.
There are no "shoulds" here. There is no situation where someone should do something therefore someone is wrong or right. That is bogus stuff, and a distraction from the real issues here.
What is working for you in this relationship?
What do you want to do?
Maybe I am not understanding, but it appears that things are escalating between you two and next post you may make will be damage to property or a person.
Please take some space.
You seem to be emotionally charged (understandably) and it is hard to make wise decisions from such position.
Please refrain from thinking you need to decide to cut off your family.
Your conflict is with your wife.
If you two cannot be in each others company without deescalating things, I strongly suggest you find some space.
What are your thoughts?
Are you able to be in each others company and there be a non emotionally charged presence between you two?
What ever was the result of the orders of protection?
How long were each of them?