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[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

I've been dealing with a spouse that has become increasingly difficult to deal with and our relationship feels as though it is near the end.  We've been together for 7 years, recently it was suggested to me that my wife shows traits of BPD so that led me to read the Walking on Eggshells book.   I don't know for certain if my wife has BPD but there is no doubt that some of her traits match what I've read.   My wife believes that I have BPD, which seems to be projection.   I am joining this group to read and learn more so that I can better deal with my relationship.   To complicate matters we both have children from previous marriages and co-parenting is a contact source of friction.  I look forward to learning more about BPD and how to cope.

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I've been dealing with a spouse that has become increasingly difficult to deal with and our relationship feels as though it is near the end.  We've been together for 7 years, recently it was suggested to me that my wife shows traits of BPD so that led me to read the Walking on Eggshells book.   I don't know for certain if my wife has BPD but there is no doubt that some of her traits match what I've read.   My wife believes that I have BPD, which seems to be projection.   I am joining this group to read and learn more so that I can better deal with my relationship.   To complicate matters we both have children from previous marriages and co-parenting is a contact source of friction.  I look forward to learning more about BPD and how to cope.

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It looks like I posted in the wrong group, sorry.