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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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« on: March 11, 2015, 10:49:39 PM »

as wondering if anyone has kids that you call when they are with the other parent and are around 2 yrs old?

when I call my daughter she likes to hang the phone up after a few seconds, im pretty sure my ex isn't hanging the phone up because when my ex calls to talk to her my daughter hangs up on her to. any one else have this happen? I know she is only two so im not to concerned just curious.

also I was thinking about doing Skype with her but I wasn't sure if she was to young for that. I don't want to confuse her.
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« Reply #1 on: March 12, 2015, 01:23:04 AM »

Eco,

If your daughter just turned 2, it's probable that she was punching buttons and hung up on you. I went through this the past year with D3 in a month. She's still a baby  Smiling (click to insert in post)

My Ex and I have an agreement to not call the OP on our time unless the kids ask. Contact isnt in the stipulation. We have them 3-2-2-3, the 3s being Friday night through Monday morning. It caused problems by 3 months in, mostly with then S4. Kids want stability, and I think that the nghtly calls reminded the kids even more of the pain of not having the OP there, so we stopped them. Their mom kept pressuring me to skype, but I would have had to ssupervise it. Plus, if they had issues with calls, how much more would Skype introduce?

It's so tough being seperated from our children, Eco, but I make the most of the time I have with them, the Interloper and uBPDx notwithstanding.
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« Reply #2 on: March 12, 2015, 08:07:57 PM »

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My Ex and I have an agreement to not call the OP on our time unless the kids ask. Contact isnt in the stipulation. We have them 3-2-2-3, the 3s being Friday night through Monday morning. It caused problems by 3 months in, mostly with then S4. Kids want stability, and I think that the nghtly calls reminded the kids even more of the pain of not having the OP there, so we stopped them. Their mom kept pressuring me to skype, but I would have had to ssupervise it. Plus, if they had issues with calls, how much more would Skype introduce?

yeah I think shes to young for Skype, she loves to get on the computer so I thought I might be fun for her

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It's so tough being seperated from our children, Eco, but I make the most of the time I have with them, the Interloper and uBPDx notwithstanding

yes it definitely is and I make sure to do the same, thanks for the input
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« Reply #3 on: March 12, 2015, 09:22:42 PM »

I just think she's just a little young yet 
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