sensing danger

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

My L. said that when she was walking down the corridor in the courthouse after the 1st day in court, stbxNPDh was right behind her saying "Landon's lies lose.  Landon's lies lose." (not her real name, but for purposes here)  He kept repeating himself until she turned and firmly said, "Stop talking to me."  He smiled and walked away.  By now, his L. must have given him my L's final argument and orders.  Here's how she ended her closing argument:  "The book should be thrown at both the husband and his attorney, and I have the husband's published book the court may use for that purpose."

I'm worried about what he'll do with all that rage.

Stuckinbetween

[stuckinbetween]

My L. said that when she was walking down the corridor in the courthouse after the 1st day in court, stbxNPDh was right behind her saying "Landon's lies lose.  Landon's lies lose." (not her real name, but for purposes here)  He kept repeating himself until she turned and firmly said, "Stop talking to me."  He smiled and walked away.  By now, his L. must have given him my L's final argument and orders.  Here's how she ended her closing argument:  "The book should be thrown at both the husband and his attorney, and I have the husband's published book the court may use for that purpose."

I'm worried about what he'll do with all that rage.

Stuckinbetween

[ForeverDad]

Fortunately you're not within easy reach.

If you do move back to a warmer climate, it would probably be a good idea not to live anywhere near him.

[livednlearned]

There's no way to know what level of danger you're in. For us, it seems like they are escalating, but I sometimes think the rage they experience is so normal for them.

I think the fact your H has a narcissistic supply coming from his mistress/assistant helps in that way where it's awful, but seems to keep them level. For my ex, he has his thousands of followers on facebook, tumblr, plus he teaches law school and has an impressive job.

Very creepy what he said to your L, but also very childish. You can picture him doing that in school, walking behind a young teacher he can't impress.

[Forestaken]

He is dangerous and is attaching his anger to your L. As an officer of the court can he legally do that?  Was anyone else present?