I probably ruined any chances...

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

Thanks again. Is it bad that I'm trying to seek out instances worse than mine or perceivably worse to the pwBPD, and they still came back?

Mine is gonna be gone 4 months... . I'm pretty sure her crazy took over cuz she couldn't handle the distance and fear of abandonment.

Anyways... . I'm gonna lose 50lbs while she is gone... . And I'll get my Master's degree finished. I often wonder if that happens... . And she found out through the grapevine... . If it would make her think I changed.

I'm doing it for me before anyone worries. I got hurt in Iraq and gained a lot of weight. Lost 106lbs since Jan 2012. Going for 150 by end of year.

It's sheer curiosity that if she finds out I'm doing super well if it increases or decreases the chances of her ATTEMPTING to come back.

My main focus is her telling her dad she was done with me forever and that she just wanted to close the door on it.

I know time has a funny way of changing hearts and minds. But I'm "normal" (not really, but I'm close to whatever normal is... . Much closer than my ex anyway)

[Relentless]

Thanks again. Is it bad that I'm trying to seek out instances worse than mine or perceivably worse to the pwBPD, and they still came back?

Mine is gonna be gone 4 months... . I'm pretty sure her crazy took over cuz she couldn't handle the distance and fear of abandonment.

Anyways... . I'm gonna lose 50lbs while she is gone... . And I'll get my Master's degree finished. I often wonder if that happens... . And she found out through the grapevine... . If it would make her think I changed.

I'm doing it for me before anyone worries. I got hurt in Iraq and gained a lot of weight. Lost 106lbs since Jan 2012. Going for 150 by end of year.

It's sheer curiosity that if she finds out I'm doing super well if it increases or decreases the chances of her ATTEMPTING to come back.

My main focus is her telling her dad she was done with me forever and that she just wanted to close the door on it.

I know time has a funny way of changing hearts and minds. But I'm "normal" (not really, but I'm close to whatever normal is... . Much closer than my ex anyway)