I found this document online and thought it might be useful for people going through the custody stuff, especially if you're at the beginning.
www.dmqlaw.com/articles/WinningStrategies.pdfSome of the advice you see here all the time. Like this:
Any temporary custody hearing should be taken as extremely serious and should be prepared for in the same fashion as if it were the final trial, for as a practical matter it may be. Some judges will take a position at a final trial that the only real evidence they wish to consider is what has taken place since their determination at the temporary hearing. So therefore the playing field may not be level at the final trial. Thus, a temporary hearing is so significant, it must be considered carefully whether to ask for one or not... .The temporary hearing must be treated as if it were the final trial, even though some evidence may not have been fully obtained and thorough investigations may not be
complete.
Adultery seems to come up a lot here, too. There's a section on Adultery that is also very useful -- what parts of the adultery situation could be useful for the court, etc. Helpful whether it is your spouse or you who has to worry about the affair and how it might affect custody.
It's not necessarily tailored toward high-conflict cases, but many of us know that contested custody cases involve disordered spouses.