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« on: June 15, 2014, 06:23:10 AM »

Well we have only a little over a week until court. These past 2 months all that keeps replaying in my mind is those little girls begging me not to send them home.

I didn't know my rights or theirs and I could have kept them and called the Police, I feel like I let them down that day. Im so afraid of letting them down again. Please pray for us all, that the court sees what we see and truly finds a way to help them.
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« Reply #1 on: June 15, 2014, 10:44:43 AM »

manicmuse

I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers this week. For the court to sincerely and powerfully keep the best interests of the girls in their decision.

Be forgiving with yourself. They still love their grandma and know that you love them. There is such a need for you to be in their lives and I will be hopeful the court will provide this for them and for you.

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« Reply #2 on: June 16, 2014, 04:03:46 AM »

Hi manicmuse. I know what you're going through. I'm thinking of you.
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« Reply #3 on: June 16, 2014, 10:21:48 PM »

How were you to know what to do?   We are all learning sometimes by trial & error. The main thing is you are there for them now.  Things will get tougher so don't be so hard on yourself, you'll need your strength to deal w/d and all the ups & downs to come.   Been there done that. Praying for you & your grandchildren to reunite soon 

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