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« Reply #30 on: June 22, 2014, 01:06:28 PM »

So, this keeps getting better and better.  Friday afternoon... . I get home from work and my dBPDgf is sitting in the garage crying.  I ask what's wrong and hug her she says nothing.  Then she says I've dealt with what was bothering me and cut the strings.  She said if you knew who it was you would be happy. (funny I am almost 100% sure it's her X from five years ago that she just saw around 1st of May).  She then says we are good now and can start working on each other.  I just looked and said ummm ok.   So the next day comes around and my son asks when are we going fising... . I said later today.  Well my gf acted like I had never said a word about fishing even though we had been talking about it ALL week.  She shut down and wouldn't move from the couch.  Even when I tried to get her going. 

So I get back from running errands and she is wanting to discuss why I was upset.  That she was over her fixing herself stage and was ready to work on us.  I said that you just don't get it.  YOU break up with me to sort out feelings about some other person.  I still am paying everything.  Nothing had really changed except her FB status ect... She honed in on "I pay for everyting"  So now shes off the deep end and went and spent the night in the tent somewhere and says that while i have my time she will stay in the tent.  I told her if thats what she feels like she must do then so be it.  She wants me to chase her and tell her NO.  But I am not doing it this time.  I am done with that. 

So tired of it all.  I really think this is the Begining of the END. 
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