Stupid question: FB profile picture

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Dear bpdfamily,

I'm 99 % over my BPDexgf but I still check her Facebook profile once a month just to see if she is still alive. We're not Facebook friends but I can see some of her activities.

She broke up with me in October 2010, tried to be friends for about six months but I went NC in June 2011 when she told me that she has a new "lover".

One thing that puzzles me: before we met, she changed her profile picture quite frequently - every three months or so. Now it's the same picture since she broke up ("needed space" with me. It's the photo I took of her with a cheap cell phone camera and she doesn't even look that good on it.

I know, you guys are not my BPDex, but can you think of a reason why she never changed her profile picture since our break-up? I'm sure she is 110 % over me.

[ldeora]

Dear bpdfamily,

I'm 99 % over my BPDexgf but I still check her Facebook profile once a month just to see if she is still alive. We're not Facebook friends but I can see some of her activities.

She broke up with me in October 2010, tried to be friends for about six months but I went NC in June 2011 when she told me that she has a new "lover".

One thing that puzzles me: before we met, she changed her profile picture quite frequently - every three months or so. Now it's the same picture since she broke up ("needed space" with me. It's the photo I took of her with a cheap cell phone camera and she doesn't even look that good on it.

I know, you guys are not my BPDex, but can you think of a reason why she never changed her profile picture since our break-up? I'm sure she is 110 % over me.

[Ventus2ct]

Dear bpdfamily,

I'm 99 % over my BPDexgf but I still check her Facebook profile once a month just to see if she is still alive. We're not Facebook friends but I can see some of her activities.

She broke up with me in October 2010, tried to be friends for about six months but I went NC in June 2011 when she told me that she has a new "lover".

One thing that puzzles me: before we met, she changed her profile picture quite frequently - every three months or so. Now it's the same picture since she broke up ("needed space" with me. It's the photo I took of her with a cheap cell phone camera and she doesn't even look that good on it.

I know, you guys are not my BPDex, but can you think of a reason why she never changed her profile picture since our break-up? I'm sure she is 110 % over me.


I have no answer but 2010…... ! I wouldn't read or take any notice of it, they will play with you until you meet the grave, just don't let them. Hell, I don't even look now, whats the point? This is 4 years ago now, is it not time to let it go?

[MommaBear]

Dear bpdfamily,

I'm 99 % over my BPDexgf but I still check her Facebook profile once a month just to see if she is still alive. We're not Facebook friends but I can see some of her activities.

She broke up with me in October 2010, tried to be friends for about six months but I went NC in June 2011 when she told me that she has a new "lover".

One thing that puzzles me: before we met, she changed her profile picture quite frequently - every three months or so. Now it's the same picture since she broke up ("needed space" with me. It's the photo I took of her with a cheap cell phone camera and she doesn't even look that good on it.

I know, you guys are not my BPDex, but can you think of a reason why she never changed her profile picture since our break-up? I'm sure she is 110 % over me.

My guess is she's got another profile page set up, is just messing with you, or has just been too lazy to change it.