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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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Adrian8134
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« on: November 02, 2014, 05:27:51 AM »

The relation is going now for an year. The hate phase started in june and never stopped since. Currently the communication is blocked completely, phone, whatsapp etc.
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« Reply #1 on: November 02, 2014, 05:32:56 AM »

The relation is going now for an year. The hate phase started in june and never stopped since. Currently the communication is blocked completely, phone, whatsapp etc.

Hi I came here about a month ago ,feeling what you're feeling right now please read as much as you can even if you have to stay all day reading it only get better you will know how to react and what to do and say in your situation I dealt with it for five years I wish I knew about this site from the year just like you .Read Read Read please 
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« Reply #2 on: November 02, 2014, 02:56:13 PM »

hi Adrian8134 and  Welcome

relationships with people with BPD can be very stressful experiences. the behavior you describe is, as you know, characteristic of the disorder. i'm glad at least that you;ve found our site. we have an large and active community of posters who have seen BPD from every angle, and have experienced what you're experiencing now. we also have a wealth of resources. welcome again!

you've posted this on the Undecided board. how do you see things going from here? how are you doing yourself? please keep posting Adrian8134!
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