hey DSA, and

to answer your question, no, not in my case, and im not immediately aware of any stories here that involve a spouse. we do have a member who's daughter was in residential treatment, and it may be useful for you to read. you can read it here, its quite a story:
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=120563can you share some of your story with us? is your spouse in residential treatment? hopefully we can help.