Should I stay or go?

[Wall bike]

What was the one thing that happened that made you know you had to go>

[Wall bike]

What made you stay?

Are you glad you did?

[Bigmd]

Well I got dumped two weeks after she said she loved me so much and really appreciated everything I do for her. I realized after she carried most of the BPD traits. After days of reflecting on our 6 years. I think back to all the trivial arguments in which i almost always thought I was wrong, too many silent treatments to count followed by making up like nothing happened ,the insecurity and criticism etc... .. All makes sense to me now.

[123Phoebe]

Hi Wall bike

Are you glad you did?

Yes, absolutely!  Or I wouldn't still be hanging around here trying to help people understand these kooky dynamics better

Realizing that I was contributing to the kookiness was a real eye-opener  

Still contribute at times, but am so much more aware and accepting of both of our "dynamics"

We're a real dynamic duo

[Skip]

Hi wall bike.

You've mentioned having a fried with BPD or BiPD… can you tell us some of the back story?  How long have you been "friends". What happened that you are thinking of walking away?

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