My (26M) ex gf (19F) is causing me pain

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

Hi everyone. I was in a relationship with my gf for 6 months, we spent holidays together abroad. When her school started again, all of sudden she says she is not in love for me and that she felt like this for 2 weeks... .when during that time we discussed our future plans, kept having sex and assuring each other how much we love. This is heartbreaking for me. She said she wants to stay friends, because I make her happy as a friend. Fast forward one month later, she think I'm stalking her. She threatened to call police on me. Basically from being the loved one suddenly she is really creeped by me. And I really do not see my own fault in all this.

[throwaway]

Hi everyone. I was in a relationship with my gf for 6 months, we spent holidays together abroad. When her school started again, all of sudden she says she is not in love for me and that she felt like this for 2 weeks... .when during that time we discussed our future plans, kept having sex and assuring each other how much we love. This is heartbreaking for me. She said she wants to stay friends, because I make her happy as a friend. Fast forward one month later, she think I'm stalking her. She threatened to call police on me. Basically from being the loved one suddenly she is really creeped by me. And I really do not see my own fault in all this.

[babyducks]

hi throwaway



I am sorry you are having this experience.   The experience you describe is familiar to many of us, meeting someone, forming an intense and deep relationship only to have it end abruptly.   and for little or no reason.

we get how painful it is.

i thought this link might be helpful for you.

How a Borderline Personality Disorder Love Relationship Evolves

coming here is a great first step.   we can help support you.   are you eating?  sleeping okay?   getting out with friends when you can?   

would you like to tell us a little more about your gf?   what made you think of BPD?

'ducks