desperate to talk to someone who has had an adult child with borderline

[Hopefully22]

My adult child has been diagnosed with BPD and we are having a lot of difficulty talking to her.  Is there someone who can give us some hope. I have read 'stop walking on eggshells' and watched some videos but nothing seems to be working. Please help. Thanks

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[livednlearned]

Hi Hopefully22,

Difficulty with communication is pretty common here!

How old is your child? Does she live with you?

Is she accepting the BPD diagnosis?

What are some examples of how you communicate, where things aren't working?