Since I have been with my uBPDw I have opened my mind, or become so completely desperate for answers, I have sought out information from every source.
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Mostly it is validation.
hi michel71,
i would only caution you to limit your sources to clinical, relibable sources on BPD. in the aftermath of these relationships, i think we all need our fair share of validation, but it can become a trap. there are answers for the questions you have, some a bit harder to swallow than others, but ultimately, facing the facts of the disorder and your relationship will aid in your detachment.