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« on: April 04, 2017, 08:53:55 PM »

Tired my daughter moved 3000 miles away we sent money more money taking care of her dog it doesn't get any better just
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« Reply #1 on: April 05, 2017, 01:50:25 AM »

Hi there quiltingmama

I know how you're feeling. I bought a ticket (I pretended it was an inheritance) to get my BPDs26 out of my home. I felt cornered, no other way I could see and he wanted to leave but had no means to do so. We were stuck. We sent him money and then more money. I understand.

You've come to the right place.

How old is your daughter?
Have you heard from her?

Try and do one nice thing for yourself today if you can. It's important to look after yourself.

LP
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« Reply #2 on: April 08, 2017, 11:33:56 AM »

Hi Tired,

I understand feeling tired

Have you supported her financially for a long time?

I agree that it can be so tiring and I believe it can get better. Posting here and seeking support, learning new skills that are non-intuitive can help, though admittedly it can be slow going.

Is this the first time your D has moved away? How often do you communicate with her?

Glad you posted. You are not alone Smiling (click to insert in post)

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