hi dubiousraves
yeah, I couldn't handle it when as a teen I didn't know where my dd was, luckily at that time she would at least always text me, but now as a young adult I only contact her every few days, or at least once a week. But if she lived at my house and I knew she was out at night like that it would drive me crazy too, so nerve-wracking.
How does she respond when you explain (like in a non-blaming way, but about yourself) how it affects you and how you can't help worrying about her? Is she willing to compromise in any way if she understands you are not controlling or judging her actions but just asking to know that she is all right so you can rest? Maybe she could understand that she wouldn't need to do this after she moves out, but as a condition of living in your house?
Sometimes it would be nice to give them a pair of GPS-enabled earrings! But only kidding... .
Good luck! Sounds like you have made really good progress!
