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Hello! I have suffered years of walking on eggshells, first with my mother-in-law, then my husband (now ex), now my daughter.

My daughter is almost 25. She has recently moved back in with me. She can't hold a job, can't maintain friendships or personal relationships, and is absolutely incorrigible! I don't know what to do. She is unemployed and a slob. I can't say anything to her because she continually gets enraged or cries. It doesn't matter what I say, it's wrong!

[Momonedge]

Hello! I have suffered years of walking on eggshells, first with my mother-in-law, then my husband (now ex), now my daughter.

My daughter is almost 25. She has recently moved back in with me. She can't hold a job, can't maintain friendships or personal relationships, and is absolutely incorrigible! I don't know what to do. She is unemployed and a slob. I can't say anything to her because she continually gets enraged or cries. It doesn't matter what I say, it's wrong!

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[wendydarling]

Hi Momonedge 

Welcome to bpdfamily, goodness you've been dealing with a lot, I'm so glad you've found us for support, you are not alone.    I can understand when you say you don't know what to do, as you'll see many of us arrive asking that very same question, it's our starting point.  Is your daughter aware of her disorder, has she a diagnosis?

WDx