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i work with a bunch of people in an environment where pds are high. im starting to loose myself... .im really stressed and do t know how to deal with everything anymore... .barely hanging on. what site should i be on?
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What kinds of things are you dealing with in your work environment that are causing you grief? We're here to help.
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Hi trying2bkind,
I hear ya! You try to be nice and sometimes it seems like you just get a load of other's people stuff dropped on ya. And you still try to be nice!
What's going on? How are you holding up?
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Hi trying2bkind,
I had a 2 year window of time spent with a boss with serious Narcissistic Traits, I know how miserable and chaotic it can be to work with this kind of dysfunction.
I found the tools I learned here helpful in my own situation (the tools here are helpful with any relationship really).
What kinds of behaviors are you seeing in terms of your co-workers?
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