Looking for hope

[Depression = 72% of members]

How can I cope with the distancing my wife is doing during this Covid crisis? I am having a hard time with the mood swings and the more I understand about BPD the less hope I have for us. I always feel like I should see her "tricks" and switches but usually don't until I am already off the rails.

[Hoping4health]

How can I cope with the distancing my wife is doing during this Covid crisis? I am having a hard time with the mood swings and the more I understand about BPD the less hope I have for us. I always feel like I should see her "tricks" and switches but usually don't until I am already off the rails.

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hi  Hoping4health, and

its a trying time for all of us.

whats going on for you right now? what tricks is she throwing at you? we can help.