Hi Hollie,
I think I just figured out my daughter has borderline at 18 after terrorizing the household with her behaviors and creating enormous conflict for about 5 years now. She is currently in an intensive inpatient treatment and I am working on finding an extended residential treatment facility. I've been researching a lot, and DBT seems to be the goto therapy for people with BPD. You can go to google maps and search for DBT in your area. I've ordered some books for her such as BPD survival guide and a BPD Mindfulness book, and I'm about to order some books for myself. "Walking on Eggshells" seems to be a popular one. Trying to take advantage of information on
www.bpdcentral.com.
From one struggling mom to another - I wish you the best. Take care of yourself. Easy to say, and hard to do. Believe me, I know.