New Here

[Caretaker NoMore]

Just found this site, and I am in the process from getting divorced from a 30-year relationship with a person who has BPD.

[juju2]

Welcome 

You found the right place.

Share more about your situation as you feel comfortable.  There are a lot of people here-no doubt- who have similar
situations or who have dealt with something like what you are going through.
It helps me to read others' stories, and see what solutions they have found.

you may also want to share at what point did the relationship become lost to you, what triggered this.

There is a lot of experience here. 
juju

[MeandThee29]

Mine was nearly that once it was over.

Thankfully it's done and closed out. What a wild ride!