I'm taking the first step. I have an adult child with BPD, and I have been slowly driving myself crazy being pulled into her drama. After a week of suicide attempts, and her trying to be admitted to the hospital, she was sent home only for the drama to begin again. I have been trying to do this on my own, but I know I can't. What I've created is a co-dependent relationship that's seriously affecting my own mental health now too.