Just had another bad experience trying to co-parent with an x-bpd spouse.
Kids just got back from their only court time with kids, 30 days. They went to moms home country. When I picked them up today, the medical equipment by son uses to walk was not there. Only my daughter's . Ex wife said I did not give it to her. However my 9 yr son said they left it in her home country. I repeated that to my ex and she said that was not true. My other son got home later tonight and said the same thing after me asking questions. It was not forth coming and both boys had tears in their eyes. But then older son said that there was 'another' walking device at ex spouses house that looks just like the one I gave her.
Sad part of story... My son can not walk without it, and the 'walker ' she has she wont give to my son to use...
I am angry, second guessing myself if I did leave it here (it has a huge footprint and I have a small house), and sad my son not is stuck and can't walk now until I buy another one which takes weeks and extremely expensive.
so sorry to hear what you just described here. It hurts just reading this and can’t imagine how you feel.
It’s really sad that pwbpd will go to great lengths to sabotage even their own children’s wellbeing- there’s no limit to the hurt they will cause.
I hope you get a replacement equipment soon, maybe hire( if possible ) one in the meantime while you’re waiting for the replacement. I know in my country some local hospitals have equipment for hire.
Take care of yourself, you are doing a great job, don’t let her illness make you doubt your sanity.
