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[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

Hello everyone. I am Steady Harbor (SH for short). I grew up with a close family member who had BPD, which was very trying as a child. My partner has BPD, I am just now realizing. I just kind of woke up to the fact that her angry outbursts, with no clear provocation, and her splitting of people into bad/good (mostly bad) -fit the pattern. Its always "felt" like BPD to me, but until now I either denied or didn't realize that all of the signs are right in front of me. I mostly want help to make sure the children involved are well cared for and loved (it can be pretty harsh).
-SH

[Steady_Harbor]

Hello everyone. I am Steady Harbor (SH for short). I grew up with a close family member who had BPD, which was very trying as a child. My partner has BPD, I am just now realizing. I just kind of woke up to the fact that her angry outbursts, with no clear provocation, and her splitting of people into bad/good (mostly bad) -fit the pattern. Its always "felt" like BPD to me, but until now I either denied or didn't realize that all of the signs are right in front of me. I mostly want help to make sure the children involved are well cared for and loved (it can be pretty harsh).
-SH