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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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« on: April 26, 2013, 09:34:05 AM »

Well 2 days now NC since I told him I am no longer going to be his ace in hole. Although I speculate there is already someone else in his life, I am assuming his ex, it does'nt seem to be bothering me as much. I really don't think I even miss him. Maybe it has'nt hit me yet, but I am hoping it means I am getting over him and can move on. The only way I am going to continue the relationship is on my terms and I am doubtfull that will happen. He just can't stop playing his games. For now, I am enjoying the silence, I may not tomorrow, but its a start.
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« Reply #1 on: April 26, 2013, 11:58:13 AM »

Wish u luck. 
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