He just doesnt get it

[lonleyandlost1]

25 texts later, and Im still not responding you'd think he'd get a clue. Nope not if you have BPD. Just going to keep right on self sabotaging. I dont get it no matter how hard I try. One minute perfectly fine watching tv. Next jumping up in a rage demanding we change it because of some other story he tied into the television show.and how he finds my opinion on that insulting. What the heck? Then because I excuse myself to bed rather then argue a losing battle, he decides to text stalk and periodically come into my room and stand above me to give me a firm lecture. I probably shouldnt have dropped the F bombs but whatever. Im tired. Worked all day only to come home to a spoiled brat. I dont know what to do anymore... .

[Vindi]

ask him kindly for some "space", you need this and he needs it too.

The 25 text's are out of control, keep not responding, yes, it may take a while for him to stop his obsessiveness, but stand firm on

not responding.

Can you go to a family or friends house to get your space?