Broken hearted, but why?

[Surnia]

Yes, lostinparadise,

About the tools: They are good and in the same time, they don't work for all of us. If not, we have look for other options.

The same with fear of abandonment: Many SO hear are dealing with it, perhaps your h is different.

your situation is very hard. 

thats why I suggested to you to reach out for a T or a helpdesk.

[wishfulthinking]

He got his prescription from Walgreens for $75 and paid his phone bill (which he had the money for the other day?) for $120.

I am looking for a therapist currently that has dealt with BPD or non's... . seems hard to come by for some reason... . ? I've only had the chance to call 4 places, though.  Between the bank and work, my time has been limited, unfortunately.

[wishfulthinking]

Thank you guys so much for letting me vent and helping me find ways to deal with all of this.  This spiral I'm in is very unsettling as I had a remarkably drama free life before he came along.

[SadWifeofBPD]

He got his prescription from Walgreens for $75 and paid his phone bill (which he had the money for the other day?) for $120.

I am looking for a therapist currently that has dealt with BPD or non's... . seems hard to come by for some reason... . ? I've only had the chance to call 4 places, though.  Between the bank and work, my time has been limited, unfortunately.

Ok... . so the bank will take that money back from those two places.  You need to get that money back since you didn't authorize.