New beginning

[blurry]

Well, looks like I just got a job, which for me usually signifies the beginning of moving on, it always helps keep my mind off the recent breakup. Gonna try to stop the ruminating and focus on my future, no matter hiw dismal it may seem, and getting back to work is the first step.

Might try to stay off here for awhile and try my best to forget about BPD for now, and focus on work and maybe start running and doing some crunches ect, and get my own finances straight. Gonna be a long hard journey but I have to treat this relationship like its over whether I like it or not.

Anyway, guess ill probably be back when/if she reaches out, but for now I need to get this whole chapter of my life off my mind. Just want to say good luck to everyone out there dealing with similar issues, I know how hard it is and wouldn't want anyone to go through it. Thanks for listening to my rants the last few weeks. Greatly appreciated.

I'm sure ill be back eventually, one things for certain, ANYTHING is possible with our beloved pwBPD.

Hope you all find happiness in your lives.

[heartandwhole]

Hi blurry,

Congrats on the new job!  I love new beginnings, too.  I understand you wanting to move on and maybe spend less time writing and thinking about BPD.  I've been there, too.  Sometimes you just have to take a break, or move on for good.

Don't forget to come back and share your success stories, like feeling great again, or finding a wonderful relationship. 

We'll always be here if you need us. Take care. 

[Learning_curve74]

Congrats on finding the new job, blurry! 

It's good to take time for yourself to take care of all types of business. Like heartandwhole said, I hope that the next time we hear from  you is to share your success stories. Best wishes to you! 

[SweetCharlotte]

Congratulations, blurry!

Have fun at your new job.