BPD ex gf and other girls

[heartonsleeve]

heellloo again.

did anyone find there BPD partner/ex to be quiet around other girls?mostly my girl mates, didnt realy click on but my ex always went into shy mode around other girls she didnt no, never seemed to get on with them, only ones she did was one she knew but shes engaged... .and another whos single but sleeping with one of my mates and shes her best friend... .though she did test me n her and ask questions about if id turn her down if she tryed it with me... .

is this a normal BPD trait?

she also panicked when i pointed out my ex once... .said she was mega pretty and then got a little sad saying she wont ever compare etc

[simplyasiam]

i dont if that normal for ppl with BPD but i saw alot of that myself in the r/s