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Livin4me
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Had a moment today, heard the song
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January 25, 2014, 12:38:30 AM »
So, we talked a lot about music, etc. He sent me this song on through Utube, and simply said... . this is one of my favorite songs. It was "I'm Like A Bird" by Nelly Furtado... . So, I was like oh, I love that song too babe. I do and loved the melody, but never really got the gest of the lyrics until today... . it came on the radio, and it was an WOW moment!
Lyrics:
You're beautiful, that's for sure.
You'll never ever fade
You're lovely, but it's not for sure
I won't ever change.
And though my love is rare,
though my love is true
I'm like a bird, I'll only fly away,
I don't know where my soul is,
I don't know where my home is.
And baby all I need for you to know is,
I'm like a bird, I'll only fly away
I don't know where my soul is
I don't know where my home is,
All I need for you to know is;
You're faith in me brings me to tears,
even after all these years.
And it pains me so much to tell,
that you don't know me that well
And though my love is rare,
Though my love is true
I'm like a bird, I'll only fly away
I don't know where my soul is,
I don't know where my home is,
And baby all I need for you to know is
I'm like a bird, I'll only fly away
I don't know where my soul is,
I don't know where my home is
And baby all I need for you to know is
No that I don't wanna say goodbye,
It's just that every time that you try
To tell me that you love me
Each and every single day I know,
I'm gonna have to eventually give you away!
And though my love is rare,
though my love is true
I'm just scared that we may fall through
I'm like a bird (I'm like a bird)
I don't know where my soul is,
I don't know where my home is
And baby all I need for you to know is,
I'm like a bird, I'll only fly away
I don't know where my soul is,
I don't know where my home is
And baby all I need for you to know is
I'm like a bird, I'll only fly away
I don't know where my soul is
I don't know where my home is
And baby all I need for you to know is
I'm like a bird, I'll only fly away
Repeat twice the chorus
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Livin4me
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Re: Had a moment today, heard the song
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January 25, 2014, 12:42:14 AM »
It made all my resentment go away... . I feel nothing but sympathy for him... . breaks my heart!
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hybridax
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January 25, 2014, 01:01:12 AM »
My ex udBPD and I got back together right before tomorrowworld in Atlanta this past September. The 4 hour drive down was so much fun, talking listening and listening to music. She wanted to hear this song by Morgan Page called the longest road... . It wasnt until this past November after she left me for someone else that lives 2000 miles away that I fully understood the lyrics... .
Giddy up and go
We'll go so far as we please
Giddy up and gold mine
Different place, different time
All the stars are in their prime
Pastel trailer park, stars so bright to hide the dark
All is quiet in the yard
Giddy up and gold dust, all the cars turn to rust
You've got no means for wanderlust
Pastel trailer park, stars so bright to hide the dark
All is quiet in the yard
If you are so frequently in love
If you prefer it all to me then my love
You go down the longest road to nowhere
You pull it apart and you're just left there
Giddy up and gold mine, horse dust down time
Its my life, its my time, we've been gettin' nowhere
Gold mine, different place, different time
Hold me down, Hold me down
Hope will be found, Follow me
If you are so frequently in love
If you prefer it all to me then my love
You go down the longest road to nowhere
You pull it apart and your just left there
They're waiting for it, you're waiting for it
And you're waving in it, and you're craving in it
If you fill my cup with all you must
To speak from something
If you are so frequently in love
If you prefer it all to me then my love
You go down the longest road to nowhere
You pull it apart and your just left there
You go down the longest road to nowhere
You pull it apart and your just left there.
... .
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Re: Had a moment today, heard the song
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January 25, 2014, 01:10:12 AM »
Holy Crap Livin4Me... .
I never really paid attention to the lyric of "I'm Like a Bird" and I've sang it in the car a thousand times. I'm certainly having a WOW moment. Thank you
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Livin4me
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January 25, 2014, 01:24:54 AM »
I know right, lady! That is why I was casually saying, yea, I love that song too baby... . not realizing the back story was so strong! I just liked the dang song. Which didn't mean a lot... . until today! Then it made my heart break, knowing (or thinking) gosh, this is how he really feels.
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January 25, 2014, 01:26:57 AM »
Hybrid, who is the person/group who recorded that song? I would like to go look it up and hear it.
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hybridax
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January 25, 2014, 02:15:00 AM »
Morgan Page ft Lissie- longest road
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Welcome to the world of EDM.
Honestly all I listen to is electronic music. Its amazing that many of the songs with lyrics are about broken relationships or the yearn for love. My therapy is going to edm shows and fesitvals and just being me for what I am. Seriosuly, Im going to Mexico City in 3 weeks to visit friends and then goto a festival outside the city. Then I will go back a few weeks later for EDC Mexico, then in May im goin to mysteryland in NY, then in june EDC Las Vegas, and july Tomorrowland in Belgium. I dont goto a therapist for my therapy, I listen to this music and I goto these shows. People if you havent heard of these events, or this music... . listen to it! It has worked for me.
and another by
Morgan Page- In the air
Here you are
And the feeling feels good
Don't know if you know it
But I think you should
Tell me it's alright
Tell me we can make this thing tonight
Feeling a change, in the air
Hallelujah I love you
You ready? Cause I couldn't be happier than right now
See if you know it
Should be with me until the end of time
I'm feeling it
I'm feeling a change
I'm feeling it in the air
I'm feeling it
I'm feeling a change
I'm feeling it in the air
To look the other way
To get what you want
Throw out your troubles find your song
Cause there's a change
Change in the air
In the air
In the air
Just one more minute here with you
All I'd give to have this come true
Can you feel it too?
Can you feel this heart beating in time?
Wishing it was yours but it's gotta be mine
Couldn't believe everything I felt
You walked in you saw me just melt
I'm feeling it
I'm feeling a change
I'm feeling it in the air
To look the other way
To get what you want
Throw out your troubles find your song
Cause there's a change, change in the air
To look the other way, to get what you want
Throw out your troubles find your song
Cause there's a change, change in the air
Don't close that door, don't walk away
Don't shut your eyes, you can hear me say
I love you now more than everyday
It's okay
Give every bit to have you here
Give every moment to see your tear
Give everything I've got from now to my last breath
I'm feeling it
I'm feeling a change
I'm feeling it
In the air
To look the other way
To get what you want
Throw out your troubles find your song
Cause there's a change, change in the air
To look the other way
To get what you want
Throw out your troubles find your song
Cause there's a change, change in the air
In the air
Here is another gem I listen to frequently at the moment.
Audien- Leaving You
Oh looky here I am burning again
Thought it was real but your love it was only pretend
Oh looky here I am walking away
I turn around if you beg
If you beg me to stay
This time I don’t think so
I had enough of your romance reflow
Heart breaker with an ego
You were doing some things that could've been illegal
Make sense out of nothing at all
You were pretty much evil
But I've got more to say
No I never, never met nobody, body like you
That ain’t no compliment, that’s the truth
You’re nothing but a cold heart covered in gold
That’s why, that’s why, that's why, that's why I’m leaving you.
and this one by
Porter Robinson- Languages
Give me release
Let the waves of time and space surround me
Yeah
Cause I need room to breathe
Let me float back to the place you found me
I'll be okay
This one is popular and it's lyrics are very true at least for me... .
Zedd-Clarity
High dive into frozen waves where the past comes back to life
Fight fear for the selfish pain, it was worth it every time
Hold still right before we crash 'cause we both know how this ends
A clock ticks 'til it breaks your glass and I drown in you again
'Cause you are the piece of me I wish I didn't need
Chasing relentlessly, still fight and I don't know why
If our love is tragedy, why are you my remedy?
If our love's insanity, why are you my clarity?
(Hey-ay, hey-ay-ay. Hey-ay, hey-ay-ay. Hey-ay, hey-ay-ay. Hey-ay, hey)
If our love is tragedy, why are you my remedy?
If our love's insanity, why are you my clarity?
Walk on through a red parade and refuse to make amends
It cuts deep through our ground and makes us forget all common sense
Don't speak as I try to leave 'cause we both know what we'll choose
If you pull then I'll push too deep and I'll fall right back to you
'Cause you are the piece of me I wish I didn't need
Chasing relentlessly, still fight and I don't know why
If our love is tragedy, why are you my remedy?
If our love's insanity, why are you my clarity?
(Hey-ay, hey-ay-ay. Hey-ay, hey-ay-ay. Hey-ay, hey-ay-ay. Hey-ay, hey)
Why are you my clarity?
Why are you my remedy?
Why are you my clarity?
Why are you my remedy?
If our love is tragedy, why are you my remedy?
If our love's insanity, why are you my clarity?
If anyone wants anymore recommendations of these types of songs/music let me know. This stuff will make you cry and it will also put the biggest F&*king smile on your face.
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Livin4me
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Re: Had a moment today, heard the song
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January 25, 2014, 02:39:23 AM »
My perception... . The reasons why most songs are composed is due to deep emotions. There are the feel good songs, which is also due to deep emotions. Anyway, as a songwriter (composer), I must say that when things effect me deeply. It will bring out a song, sometime good, sometimes bad... . but it is a beautiful way to express yourself!
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Rosinka
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January 25, 2014, 02:41:54 AM »
I would love more song texts! They make me cry too.
Rosinka
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