Hi rubyhammer,
My wife thinks we should homeschool. I stated that I am not able to help with homeschool at this time because I don't have enough time or energy to do it properly.
When I said that she stopped talking to me and ignored me for the rest of the meal and the whole ride home.
you got a strong argument and you are in a good position to push this through. She knows that and she knows things will change. She is loosing tight control of the kids. She is loosing meaning in her life. She knows not what will happen. Of course she is not happy with the change. This is important to her. She will run against that decision until it is implemented or she is out of power.
I'm very tired of having my wife get angry and upset with me whenever I share how I feel about something. I'm tired of living in constant fear of her cold-shoulder, her silent treatment, her angry outbursts, her lectures, her telling me how to feel and act.
I've decided not to interact with her when she treats me like this.
Good move. This is a slow moving extinction burst. It is hard to get through that but once you are on the other side life gets easier.
Hang in there