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« on: August 20, 2014, 02:24:39 PM »
I just don't get it? I was getting over her, my undiagnosed BPDex just vanished four months ago. She moved out while I was at work taking our baby. I do have lawyers on it. But for the life of me why do I keep replaying it all? Everything was pretty good before. She had sex and literally took a shower with me the night before she disappeared! The next morning she woke up with me and made my lunch to take to work and kissed me goodbye. we text all day
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« Reply #1 on: August 20, 2014, 11:27:24 PM »
You experienced trauma   Was it triggered today? Or are you relieving this often? I'm so sorry to hear you went through this today.
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« Reply #2 on: August 21, 2014, 01:16:24 PM »
Thanks Mutt... yeah that stupid John legend song "all of me" did it. And thanks for, the pep talk sir... but it's been four months of complete silence... I don't see her coming back. Someone else is probably taking care of the baby because she honestly is to lazy to work.
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« Reply #3 on: August 21, 2014, 02:18:48 PM »
Another guy posted a response here what happened to it?
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