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Hurtbeyondrepair27
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« on: October 26, 2014, 11:29:43 AM »

Had a moment of weakness and unblocked him from

fb.

im really missing him right now... all tho i can tell

from his posts hes not missing me. posts about dating ect... .

he seems fine.

nice to know one can move on so quickly.
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« Reply #1 on: October 26, 2014, 12:02:53 PM »

Had a moment of weakness and unblocked him from

fb.

im really missing him right now... all tho i can tell

from his posts hes not missing me. posts about dating ect... .

he seems fine.

nice to know one can move on so quickly.

Yep, that's how they operate. I have realized that my ex never really liked me the way that I thought she did. It seems like it was just a script that she uses on each subsequent partner. The more time that goes by, the more pity that I have for her. I'm still angry though, Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)... .
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Hurtbeyondrepair27
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« Reply #2 on: October 26, 2014, 12:09:02 PM »

I still love him very much... and here he is...

Not necessarily wanting me but any chick who will

fill the void.

i feel so special.

im not bitter... .Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #3 on: October 26, 2014, 12:52:53 PM »

Sorry to hear this. It's going to be okay. It's not that you aren't special (you are). It's just what he does to survive. If he sat down and faced the emotional weight of what he's done he'd be crushed by it. My ex is the same way. It's got nothing to do with you, and everything to do with him and his maladjusted coping skills.
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« Reply #4 on: October 26, 2014, 01:00:26 PM »

It's got nothing to do with you, and everything to do with him and his maladjusted coping skills.

My ex had no conflict resolution skills whatsoever. Emotionally healthy people discuss their issues with their partner. These people shut down and run away.
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Hurtbeyondrepair27
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« Reply #5 on: October 26, 2014, 01:01:20 PM »

Sorry to hear this. It's going to be okay. It's not that you aren't special (you are). It's just what he does to survive. If he sat down and faced the emotional weight of what he's done he'd be crushed by it. My ex is the same way. It's got nothing to do with you, and everything to do with him and his maladjusted coping skills.

thismade me cry. thank you

deep down i know thats it... .but its a hard pill to swallow
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