BPD disorder or else?

[zeus123]

We think that borderlines are incapable of regulating their emotions, and that's what causes the "love you/hate you" stuff. while a BPD'S emotional ages echoes that of a three year old. borderline can control and modulate their emotions during the seduction phase(idealization) when they are trying to win you over. they are well aware of their intentions. i don't see my exBPDgf as a person with mental disorder only but as someone with a plan and an agenda going after a target(me) for narcissistic supply. like a predator looking for a prey. no love no empathy and no remorse.the only way for a prey to survive the onslaught of a BPD is NC(NO CONTACT). MY EXPERIENCE... .