this actually happens quite regularly. I think i'm getting better because when this used to happen I would get anxious, nervous, fearful and have it ruin my entire day. Today I didn't care. there was no emotional response. the exchange went like this
her:have a great day
me: thanks
her: I love you
me: you too?
her: you too, you too, you too, you too you too you too. you too you too
heruch that hurts
me: did you copy and paste all that you too. cuz that's a lot of you too
her: you are a jerk
me: speaking of that I am watching it right now. the one with steve martin. have you seen it
her: why do you insist on hurting me
me knock it off
her: you made me feel like
me:why
her: just can't talk about it. it hurts too much
me: ok. have a great day
her: just so you know i'm going to the bar after work. don't expect me home anytime soon
me. have a few for me
her: you don't love me like you used to
me: my love for you is evident over time by my actions toward you.
her: sometimes I like to hear it wish you could see that
her: I am not going to give it to you any more. affection its draining
me: okay I won't give you anything anymore either. sound good>
her: you have no idea how bad you hurt me
me: sorry ou feel that way. I don't see it that way.
me: hey look today college football starts. I;'m so excited
end of communication.
I get this all the time. it used to drain me. now that I am learning and detaching it doesn't make me anxious, depressed, nervour or ruin my whole day.
th;anks yall
Do you want to continue this relationship with her? If the communication is going like that, it's not going anywhere productive/healthy. Why not end it with her if your heart's not in it?
