Bpd on and off girlfriend is delusional

[Gregg]

So I don't know where to start my on and off agin girlfriend lives in a different reality she shows signs of BPD npd and antisocial.lately she told me she was pregnant and acting pregnant but acting like I'm not the one who got her pregnant it all hurts my brain

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[livednlearned]

So I don't know where to start my on and off agin girlfriend lives in a different reality she shows signs of BPD npd and antisocial.lately she told me she was pregnant and acting pregnant but acting like I'm not the one who got her pregnant it all hurts my brain

That's a lot to deal with, not least of which the impending pregnancy.

How do things typically go from on to off in your relationship? Are the two of you currently living together?

[MapleBob]

Welcome, Gregg! Can you tell us some more about your current situation with your girlfriend? How can we help you?

[sweetheart]

Hi Gregg,

My h has BPD and often lives in his own reality. I know for him that any period of increased stress can cause him to behave in this way.

Pregnancy can be a very challenging time for any woman, especially when there are mental health issues to consider. I can hear that you have perhaps a sense of uncertainty around the pregnancy, I'm not surprised your brain is hurting, it sounds very confusing for you both.

I won't ask you any more questions, liveandlearned and MapleBob have some covered for now.

Keep posting, and telling us about you and your relationship.

We are always here to offer you support and guidance for as long as you need it.