Would a BPD woman with young children be more likely to make her next relationship work for the sake of the kids? My ex was 100 percent dedicated to her young children, and really wanted a husband and a father. Yet she still ruined things. Wouldn't you think the next time around they would work very hard to not mess it up? Or maybe if they always do, then that's where the pregnancy entrapment comes. Are they even capable of making decisions for the best interests of their children?
I don't think so because they are mentally kids themselves. I never heard my ex tell our baby "I love you" so no I don't.