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« on: April 03, 2016, 12:01:39 PM »

I am about ready to walk away from my son, his mother is BPD, narcissistic and socialpathic. Everytime I agree to take our son it always ends up me having him longer than we agreed on. I will NOT have contact with him mother. I made that perfectly clear when I agreed to resume coparenting last Friday. She leaves her keys in his bag on purpose so she can come over to get them? NO! Grandmother agreed to pick him up and drop him off and today said my son's mother will pick him up. NO!

NO CONTACT IS NO CONTACT in any manner

Grandma insist she give my number to our sons mother, NO!

After what my son's mother and I have gone through I will never speak to her again. I'm suppose to protect our son from his mother and I am protecting myself from her too. If she comes around I'm walking away from everyone. These people have no respect
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« Reply #1 on: April 04, 2016, 12:07:08 AM »

What can you do legally here to help assert strong boundaries (I.e., make the court the "bad guy"?).
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« Reply #2 on: April 04, 2016, 08:24:01 AM »

JerryRG,

It sounds like you are in crisis here. Is there anything we can do to help you?
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« Reply #3 on: April 04, 2016, 11:24:32 AM »

Thank you livednlearned and Turkish

I'm feeling better today, got a lot of sleep last night, did my prayers and devotions this morning and next AA and talk to my boss, sponsors and friends, gym, ride my bike.

For those of you who kinda know your bible one of my scripture passages to memorize was:

2 Chronicles 16:9

For the eyes of the LORD range throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to him. You have done a foolish thing, and from now on you will be at war.

I had to laugh at the "be at war" part...  Indeed Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)

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