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« on: July 21, 2016, 02:40:40 AM »

hi all

the ex received court papers yesterday

she has sent two emails sms and a whats app message

and got my daughter to pm me

i have emailed your lawyer please get him to check his inbox as it took 6 weeks last time

she knows she is supposed to respond to the court

this is just delaying and a way to engage

there is no email to the solicitor

i can read right through her  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #1 on: July 21, 2016, 10:51:47 AM »

Because my ex got a very favorable temporary order, typical for mothers in many family courts, she delayed the divorce as long as she could.  I kept the case moving along even though it seemed glacially slow, it was 2 to 5 months between each return to court.  As we approached the end of the 2 year divorce (a slight exaggeration, actually just 23.5 months) she settled as I arrived at court on Trial Day.

Keep the case on track as much as you can.  Avoid distractions, deviations and delays as much as you can.  Some is unavoidable but keep it to a minimum.  Shrug off the chatter, defend yourself proactively.
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« Reply #2 on: July 22, 2016, 05:42:16 AM »

thx my brief never got her email again

more delaying tactics
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